My parents immigrated three times, and twice during my lifetime. First, they married in Hong Kong, then moved to Spain. A couple of years past my birth, we moved to Puerto Rico. We lived there until my father passed. We planned to move to Florida, and the rest of us did within a year. I won’t say that my life was full of strife; life is what you make of it. I will say that it gave me a different perspective, and oftentimes it wasn’t voluntary nor necessarily welcomed.
I have spent my entire life as an outsider. Among the most interesting parts of this difference is accountability. In my high school English class, I was once called “sumo wrestler” by our class president. My proportional response was to call him a “spook”. Yes, he was black, and I knew it was a racial slur. The moment that word escaped my lips, our teacher barked at me. His uttering a slur was fine, but somehow my uttering a slur was not. This incident repeated itself weeks later with precisely the same results.